Watching a rerun of Jaws the week before you go to the beach isn’t the mental image you want racing through your mind as you enter the Atlantic Ocean for the first time this summer. Nonetheless, I followed two of my children, Daniel and Lydia into the crashing waves. When the big waves subsided, each of us began wading on our boogies boards, floating peacefully beyond the break line. A few minutes later, I felt a leg brush against the bottom of my foot. As I was about to blame my daughter, I realized she was three yards away, not close enough to reach me. Seconds later, my son began to freak out as something big swam underneath him. Turning around in all directions, two dolphins surfaced for air just to our right. This event served as a simple reminder to stay close when you enter uncharted waters.
My little children, I am writing these things to you so that you may not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous, 1 John 2:1.
While on earth, Jesus served as a big brother to little children. Like a guardian, Jesus realized the need to shield young people from the dangers of this world. According to Jesus, sin is the greatest threat, corrupting and poisoning the innocence of a child. To prevent addiction, bad habits or sinful desires from spread, God urged his followers to stay close to God. The parable of the prodigal son illustrates what happens when individuals rebel or stray away from loving parents. Sure, there will always be exceptions to this, yet the broad road which leads to destruction is often too enticing for the masses to resist.
“Enter by the narrow gate. For the gate is wide and the way is easy that leads to destruction, and those who enter by it are many. For the gate is narrow and the way is hard that leads to life, and those who find it are few,” Matthew 7:13-14.
My three children have reached a point in life where I don’t have the influence as I once did. Friends, peers and society are making suggestions daily trying to win them over. Hal Lindsey’s book Steeling the Mind of America warned about this danger over twenty years ago. In recent years, instant gratification is blinding minds from doing the right thing. Fading absolutes and expanding grey areas are fueling young people to make poor choices. Since free will is offered to adults and children, parents have to let go at some point. When you do, take time to pray asking the Holy Spirit to remind your children to stay close to God.
by Jay Mankus